Originally Posted by Schmidt12
Ok here goes, so me and my girfriend have been talking about Polyamory recently. We are planning on getting married in 2 years, should we put the Polyamory talk on hold? And we have been talking in the form of a triad, but if it came down to it other than me she is more interested in women. And here's my thing, sometimes I'm ok with the thought of her with another man, other times it bugs me. I understand it isn't fair, but at the moment anyways men don't interest her. And having gone through this it makes me love her that much more because I understand the difficulty to accept it. Any tips? Advice?
Try Poly out before getting married. That way you'll know if it is possible for you as a couple and not just as individuals. It might work for one of you but not the other.
Good luck and it's great you are discussing this sooner rather than later