My husband is a retired Marine, and I personally claim the entire Corps as permanently my own. So, welcome to the forum! It can get a little freaky-deaky in here, but it's all good.
So sorry to hear about your wife. I hope she continues to improve. I know it can be a long haul, and I want to say way to go on walking out your semper fidelis in that situation. I hope you find what you're looking for.