Originally Posted by PollyPocket
Anyhow, I am working on my self...which by the way is a pretty secure self 90% of the time...but that 10% down almosts kicks my own ass to the curb!!
That's actually a pretty good split of up and down IMO. I was almost 50/50 for the better part of a year and it almost drove me crazy.
I finally needed a visual way to understand this new cycle of ups and down and collect my thoughts. Ups and downs come in all relationships but this was the first time I had experienced anything like this roller coaster. Getting to know the monster and your metamour more is the key.