Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
Does your wife get to have a boyfriend? Poly is a two way street after all.
If she wanted I think I could deal with it. Problem is shes is totally not interested in that. I've talked to her about it before. So that rules out more of the swinging type lifestyle or finding another couple to swap with or something. She basically says she is fine with me having someone else as long as things don't go over center where I spend more time with a girlfriend then I do with her. Totally understandable. I would just need a girlfriend that respected my wife and could also understand the feelings.