Is this the conflict Ari was referring to? How narrow is their def of queer? I think of myself as very queer indeed, both in ID and preference. But mileage varies.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37