I find this op's post interesting because his discription of how his wife dealt with everything is how I used to deal with things. I want something and I will get it under the guise of a right to my independence. Independence is a right, but should never be a demand in a loving relationship however. Things is, what people say on here is one sided too. Sometimes it can be triggering as a result. We are all entitled to be triggered. Some were one way and it sounds like their trigger triggered you superjast. A trigger is trigger. Interesting to look at why I think.
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