got an email from him this morning. He called himself stupid, clumsy, wishy-washy, and is sorry he hurt me. They still haven't worked out how he damaged her trust in him by meeting me w/o telling her last fall.
So, we "can't continue in a relationship" with each other. And he's very sorry. And that's that.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
"Master," (mono, 36), miss pixi's Dom for 3 years