Thank you for your responses
Wow. I can't believe the number of responses I've gotten already. Thank you so much for the feedback so far. My husband read these posts also and I think we've both realized there are some things he needs to discuss with the other person involved. They are valid points and I appreciate them very much as does he.
If anyone here who posted has ever felt like I do and you were able to get over the feelings of jealousy, I would sure appreciate knowing more about how you did that. I will check into the websites that have been offered up here and see where that leads me. I look forward to additional feedback as it comes up.