Originally Posted by MCow
She is married as well, as has no intention of telling her own husband about any of this.
There's nothing poly about that. She's cheating with him and he's enabling it. Nothing open and honest and ethical about that.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.