Originally Posted by freeantigone
This is just my opinion, but you've been screwed over here. It doesn't seem that at any point have your feelings been acknowledged and no negotiation has occurred. To me, this isn't so much a poly relationship as you supporting 3 kids: your wife, her lover & your child.
If I were you I'd kick them both out and let them sleep in the bed they've made.
I stress, that is just my opinion.
All of this plus an ass-kicking
She's used you as a paycheck and door mat from my perspective. Time to kick them out on thier asses. Really, who will blame you once they know her
story. She'll be crucified and rightly so. She's making a fool of you my friend.
Sorry if this is harsh..massive trigger pushed on this one.