So after the morning monster of yesterday, "C" and I ended up talking and talking, first on phone, then she came over and we talked and talked and talked. I was the one who actually said at one point, "We have already talked about that ad nauseum and I am not going there again."
It was pretty funny, because we had lots of laughs in the process and she wanted me to help her with some 'bikini line' stuff, and I did with the "No Touch" technique. Again, another proud moment for me!!
We ended up going to get our nails done and having a great time, and I felt so attached and secure....until the ride home when she mentioned again that she wanted a 'Date Night' with hubby ONLY. I said that we had talked about this before and I had asked for a little patience. Please just be patient. It will come but it can't happen this weekend. She was pissed, "I hate having limitations placed on me." She came at me a bit and again, I said, "Could we just ignore that last 5 minutes and get back to where we were?" Begrudgingly, she managed to (miraculous recover!) as we pulled into the driveway.
We had a quick bite of dinner and the three of us hit the bedroom for some incredibly good frolicking! It still confuses me a bit because we all are so incredibly compatible in the bedroom and she is INTO me a lot there. So...I will just roll with it and enjoy all the good pieces and try to push through the bad ones. When I feel nice and secure like this, it seems the monster is not even in the picture....of course. Let's hope it stays that way!
Thanks for any other words of wisdom!