About group sex
Okay, so I've always known I was poly, but I never really thought about group sex. For me lovemaking was more of a one-on-one thing, group sex sounded like a "just for sex" kind of thing.
But when I started dating my boyfriend (long distance relationship), well it kind of changed. Long story short (and sorry if I'm giving too much detail) over the course of two months we had phone sex, cyber sex, I sent him videos of me alone, then with my husband, then we had phone/cyber sex in which I was having sex with my husband and talking/camming with my boyfriend at the same time.
Every one of these things felt like lovemaking and not "just sex".
I always thought that even with two partners, I'd only make love with one of them at a time. But I find that the idea of pleasing both of them at the same time is very arousing and satisfying. We have thought of spending vacations with the three of us and probably have sex together (keeping in mind it's a V, not a triad, so they wouldn't do anything sexual with each other).
I'm a bit curious about it all. I know group sex isn't that common and that most poly networks never do it, but I'm wondering if anyone here has had previous experiences similar to mine, that is with a V, not a triad, and if they could tell me about it? I'm just not sure how it would all work out, and if it would be awkward or what. I mean so far it's been fantastic, but it might be different when we're actually all in the same room/bed. Anyone has any pointers, things to keep in mind?