Originally Posted by Derbylicious
I would also like to echo what other people have said. This is a brand new relationship and as such you shouldn't be making any life altering decisions yet. Give it at least a year and a half (especially since it's a long distance relationship). Once the NRE of the relationship has worn off you can look at how you really want to have your life structured. Maybe you'll decide that you really do want to be mono in which case it will be time to sit down with your wife and figure out how to transition in such a way that will cause the least damage to your children.
I really like your advice. I think I need to talk with Bree and see if she feels she's able to move forward like this. NRE is a powerful drug, and it's definitely clouding my judgment here.