Welll... as long as they use condoms, would you be ok with it then?
If it's because you're worried about "catching something", then using condoms would be the answer (I realize that condoms are not 100% guaranteed but still that's usually the caveat when it comes to casual sex).
Or is it about more than just being "scared of catching something"?
There is nothing wrong with being "selfish" because you don't want to catch a STD, but it sounds to me like there is more to it than that. I read between the lines and something tells me that you are afraid of something else but feel that the "scared of catching something" is a "safe" reason to put first so you won't have to confront whatever else is bothering you.
Last edited by NeonKaos; 08-26-2010 at 04:30 PM.