*Puts on DA horns* Polyamory can lead to infidelity... in the current society. A person is married and finds themselves falling in love with someone else. But due to society's mores or morality, it is wrong for them to be together, no matter their feelings or even to discuss it with anyone. So since it is wrong they hide it from everyone including spouses and infidelity is achieved.
Most people, even posting here, have major doubts about bringing up being poly for the first time with their SO's. That is due to upbringing and society norms. So society itself is the cause of infidelity. Am I talking in circles yet?
Up until I joined this forum, I knew very few people or couples who have the type of communication that my hubby and I have and I feel that our communication was the key to making the possibility of a poly transition even possible.
Life is about the journey and not the destination,
so what better way to know life
than to wander all the roads and paths set before you.