Do you live close to your couple?
they currently live with me, their house closes this week so they will be moving out the beginning of Sept.
Have you and her had any alone time together?
yes, but not much
Have the three of you had "alone" time together?
yes, both seperately (him and I more than her and I) and together.
I know you and him have been together alone because she was gone for a while........but have you and him since she's been home?
Yes, at least once a week when she goes over to her bf house. but I am not feeling like that is enough...is that selfish? They get alot of alone time together and I only get one evening alone with him and very rare with her...she is very busy with her Army friends and bf and such...
When do they plan on letting you meet the kids?
In October when she goes to pick them up in Georgia.
Are they planning on seeing anyone else?
She has a bf already. It doesn't bother me for them to see others.
Are you planning on seeing anyone else or just them?
Right now it has just been them, but I have a few friends with benefits that I see sometimes, but they are more friendships than anything serious...
I think the big thing is that I know you are soooo excited to be in this relationship, but take your time, just like you would with any other relationship. The newness will rub off and when it does it's a married couple with 4 kids! LOL! There's going to be alot more things to worry about than alone time at that point, you know what I mean?
The newness of a relationship is always so awesome. The butterflies are great.
I think the key to happiness is finding people that give you those butterflies every day of your life.
Anyway, I hope everything works out perfect for you. You sound so bubbly and happy you definatley deserve it.[/QUOTE]
Thank you so much for the advice. It is all very new and I am just trying to learn each day how these things work. This is just so fascinating to me, that I try to soak in as much as I can. I absolutely love kids, so I am SUPER excited to meet them all! they have a 11, 9 and twin 5 year olds. I am def welcoming all of this with openness and honesty.