Originally Posted by BadLucyLiu
My husband now feels he has opened pandoras box and doesn't know what to do.
Luckily, we have a very strong relationship and are more concerned about hurting each other.
I can so relate to that. I opened the box - and now *I* am the one having issues. We are also in a similar situation where we don't want hurt each other.
It has been said a couple times on this forum that the situation should go as slow as the one with the most difficulties. In this case, your husband. He also needs to be very open with his feelings and what's going on for him.
It is, for me, an odd situation to have WANTED this - and now my whole being is fighting it... because I still do want it.