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Old 08-23-2010, 12:27 PM
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Well, I had that concern months ago and that was one of the things we addressed in earlier IM convos. Again and again, I have said I have no need or desire to "lure L away" from her. I'm deeply in love with and committed to my gf and just want a secondary (preferably w/ a penis, lol). Oddly, in L's okc profile, he says:

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Our ideal household would be a big multi-family house where everyone is lovingly involved--a kind of poly intentional community.
"Our ideal." And yet, his wife can't even get her mind around including me in their lives? WTH?
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