Originally Posted by nautilus
Shared my partner with another woman, my body rejecting intimacy with him now. Help! Why?
After watching him have sex with someone else, something has changed. He keeps reminding me how much he loves me, but my body is not catching up with that fact and it ends up rejecting him. Our sex is not what it used to be because I can't open up and feel comfortable letting go anymore. Feeling very self conscious and self judgmental. Need your advice, guys. Thanks
How long have you been struggling with these feelings? Have you and your partner talked about it much?
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
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