Hi Cajun -
I understand the jealousy thing. For the past five years my husband and I thought we were swingers, but it was never a very good fit. We recently found a woman that we both love very much, and then saw a program on tv about polyamory. We both agree that is us! Our relationship is secure. I know he will never leave me, and I will never leave him. This woman seems to complete and center us. It's a wonderful thing, but jealousy does slip in. It's a learning experience about trust. I must remind myself that I am not giving up anything or giving anything away. I am not losing a part of me, but am gaining the love of a beautiful woman.