Originally Posted by inlovewith2
Is it wrong that I have envy for this? Really I'm just being impatient. I know I will meet my bf's wife sooner than later (they are both poly and have been for years, but we live a bit of a distance away and we both have youngish kids). But I have sort of a fantasy of us all hanging out. There's my idealism for you! And I'm excited to meet DW's secondary. She sounds fantastic!!!
In short, I think it's great (I don't care for the judgment of normal, but it does seem normal in a healthy way)!
I don't think it's "idealism" -- I call it - PREFERENCE!