Ha, Raze, I met w an old co-worker/friend who found me on FB yesterday too. We used to be really close but fell out of touch. I wasnt sure if I'd bring up the poly thing, as she knew me as a mono woman in a het relationship. But after she told me she had been having a 10 yr affair, all bets were off.
She thought it was pretty cool. Had lots of questions I was glad to answer.
I felt a bit sickened by her being involved w another while supposedly mono w her husband. But then she told me he found out about it 5 yrs into it, and then they never discussed it again! Talk about, "dont ask, dont tell!"
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (42, M) since Oct 2015 (he has recently downgraded us to friends)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years