Ah Leo. Just like my mum. Ha! I might call on you for some advice
I'm a sag, we get along when we have a project to do (fire energy) but when it comes to her idea of loyalty and mine, her idea of what a woman should do and mine, her idea of everything and mine; we clash big time. Put the fact that she is an old school feminist and gone through the war British style (I should be grateful for all she has done for me in other words) and its a mess. As much as I love her.
BPD, wow. That's hard. I feel for you. I really do with that one.