I am currently with a wonderful military couple. He got back from Iraq a few months ago and we started dating 1 month ago and she just got back from Iraq a week ago and we are hitting it off pretty well thus far. Our problem seems to be balance right now. How do you create balance in your relationships without one or the other feeling neglected? Not sure if it makes sense I think we are finding that balance, but I thought I would hear from some of you as well regarding the matter.