Thanks for posting.
Might I make a couple of suggestions.
1 - Text her, you are friends with her and ask her to give you guys time. She likely doesn't know its a bad time
...her and I work and live different eating schedules for example. So we can have bad habits of communicating at different times. Late at night, mid way through dinner
2 - I don't think it is wrong of you to want time MBG. It may be rooted in jealousy but you still need time to connect with wellington nightly, I know I need that with Pengrah. Instead of bottling it up and exploding, maybe you should make up clear time frames and rules on your time to keep you comfortable.
Just some thoughts.