Originally Posted by redpepper
I am not sure why I care so much, but I will ask again. You seem to think that this is not poly and that in some way you are unusual.... I asked what made you think so before and you haven't answered.... it looks like you are and it looks like you are poly-fi to me. What is it that makes you think that is unusual? I don't get it.
sorry for the hijack, I'm just trying to understand Jenni
I was wondering the same thing. I wouldn't have even given it (the FMF poly-fi triad) a second thought, but for the fact that jennjuice mentioned it more than once and made a point to say that it's "not really poly". What is so "not poly" about it? Is it just that you don't like to use the p-word? Because a three-way relationship is certainly not "mono".