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Old 08-17-2010, 04:57 AM
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I recently entered a similar situation. I began a friendship with O and gradually I began to feel he was looking for something a little more and so I assumed that meant sex. He is by the way married. Eventually, we had a long talk and realized that we wanted to try having a friendship with "unconventional boundaries." Sex is not the focus, our friendship is. His wife supports things and the three of us spend a lot of time together. It has required lots of discussion and patience. It can be confusing and certainly challenging. I'm pretty new at all of this. Still learning....
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