Thank you anotherbo. That is actually very helpful. He has similar traits I think. I have been the one to kick his ass and get him moving again to do something about it. I think sometimes he has been so low that he just needs complete space, as you say, and I either don't give it and kick his ass or get on with my own life and see him later. Hmmmm. Stuff to think about! Maybe there is something not working there for him. Thanks!
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