Originally Posted by DazednConfused
And it's looking more and more likely that my job may transfer me come October. She gets furious when I tell her my position might require alot more travel, says it will kill us, and I can just stay home and collect unemployment.
I'm sorry, this is just such a horrible thing to say to someone you love. There are lots of ways to make a relationship work when work requires a lot of traveling. That comment was incredibly selfish on her part, you deserve someone who will support you. The unemployment in your area must be better and easier to qualify for than where I live.