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Old 08-12-2010, 07:54 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Originally Posted by Ariakas View Post
(everyones poly is different, well thats kind of a weak foundation to build a site on in my very long experience at doign this).
I have to question that claim because I can assure you that such a notion was never considered as essential to anything dealing with site policies. Indeed, I can assure you that such a notion was never considered *at all* when the site policies were being decided.

I can say *definitively* that such a notion is not the foundation of this site.

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I think the only thing I don't like about this site, and this is not limited to here, is the lack of story line when things are tough (this applied for regulars I should say). I find sometimes people tend to only post when things when they are going well. This creates a false sense of "how it can be" when everyone is dealing with their demons.
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This is changing a bit, as more people are blogging, and more members are joining. But it was a concern of mine shortly after I joined.
That is a function of the members posting what they want to talk about--something site staff can't do much about.
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When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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