Originally Posted by Tiana
There are things I want so badly, I DO want to get married, to have that fairy tale wedding, to have children and a family. I do not know if John can give this to me, but Bob can. But Bob doesn't understand the cost it would be to both me and John if I just cut John out of my life.
Just to let you know, it is entirely possible to get married, have the fairy tale wedding, have children and a family while still being in an open poly relationship. You may or may not be able to have this with John, but even if you can't, there certainly are good people out there you could have it with.