Originally Posted by DazednConfused
it also feels kind of a pride thing...a why the hell do I wanna go there if he just did...even though i REALLY REALLY want to...
I think it is possible that it is a pride thing. I've felt similar feelings. I have avoided performing oral sex on my girlfriend a couple of times because her other boyfriend is better at that than I am. He can give her an orgasm that way, and I have not been able to. So, rather than go down and think negative thoughts about how I'm inferior at pleasuring her orally, I just passed and had intercourse with her.
That's only happened a couple of times though, because I usually still go down to give her a longer warm up before intercourse, to experience the intimacy of it, and finally to be that close to her gorgeous vagina!