Had a conversation with someone the other day. Apparently the "typical" scenario goes something like this:
Man wants open/poly relationship.
Woman agrees (regardless of how that came about or how grudgingly)
Woman gets all the attention.
I've also (through reading this forum) seen the following:
Man wants open/poly relationship
Woman agrees (regardless again of the how)
Man has a new spouse.
SO not being typical - my story started out like this:
WOMAN wants open/poly relationship
Man finally agreed after MUCH conversation and assurances from woman.
Man finds someone he connects with.
Really? Can't I just do ONE thing normally???? LMFAO
He or she is out there -and I am THRILLED for dh that he's found someone he's connected with so well.
My life is a mass of contradictions and this is the latest irony