I have a hard time when people say "put yourself first" I think I like "I am my own primary." it kind of indicates that we think for our selves and don't do things that we don't want to but also consider others in that.
Anotherconfused. I have thinking about your issue here. I am actually surprised that this guy has all three of you so wrapped around his finger. His wife, your wife, you... I don't think I've ever seen that before. I haven't known lesbians that allow that much of men in their lives. Interesting. I guess she's not actually a lesbian really. Its hard to know what is really going on if I'm not there, but it was just a thought. It has made me a bit angry actually. So manipulative and controlling some how!
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