Originally Posted by redpepper
I travel between the two... I am a traveler wanting to settle down. I don't see it in terms of houses, but in terms of people. My time and energy is divided... sigh.... I don't know how many times I have to say it. But I will keep saying it. That won't change... only I can.
This is my life too......going from town to town. The one difference is that I have never co-habitated with any of my lovers. So- for me, it's normal. I have never expected anything more and I've gotten used to it. I like having several towns to visit- going back and forth. I do have my own place, however and I live here alone, so I have settled down too. I think I understand how it would feel to not be settled down, but I'm not sure.