My boyfriend recently proposed to me. I said yes. And we had a good conversation about what commitment meant to us.
The conversation was really good. I had been wondering if maybe we weren't entirely on the same page because he's more mono-inclined and I'm more poly-inclined. It turns out that we both accept each other as we are and don't think this will come between us. We aren't jealous people. We both want the other to have fun with other people as long as it doesn't harm our relationship. I'm so happy that we agree about this and that we want to make such a serious commitment to each other.
So now I'm both engaged and openly poly!