YGirl - One of them was already IN life stories and blogs. And the one you moved still isn't "my side", but thanks for naming the thread with your opinion. And I could care less "which thread is whose"; that's an issue YO created with your renaming. The original was an honest "anyone have any ideas" thread in the General section until she hijacked it; true story. SHE recognized this fact and started the new one, interweb courtesy.
Ilove2Men - you didn't insult her and question her motives. I assure you, she would have replied far nastier than I did had you done so. But by all means continue to read only one side of the issue and spout off - it suits you at this point.