This thread contains alot of great opinion.
Sometimes it is very hard to determine what the "right" thing for one to do is. Sometimes one can confuse intuition and gut feelings with rational thought. Personally, I say that you should do what makes you FEEL good inside.
In the end you make your own decisions - they could differ from what ANYONE else would do too. Hopefully they will lead to growth and contentment, not agony. That is probably the best determinate for which decision is "right".