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Old 08-13-2010, 12:25 PM
FitChick FitChick is offline
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i think you need to keep the communication lines open with your husband,if you feel this is something you won't grow out of,then you need to be honest but gentle with him. when I first met my partner(he is poly) it was and occasionally is still weird when we discuss how he feels about other women. perhaps you are the type of couple that needs to 'define' your relationships,it doesn't work for everyone but it may for you. For instance even though we don't use the term,my partner defines me as his 'primary' and his other friend his 'secondary'.
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