do some searching on here for "coming out" tagged threads, there are some good threads that discuss this at length...
Its not easy for some and should be done at a good time. I would not suggest when one is in NRE over poly or someone they are just recently dating. Why deal with others stuff when you can have fun and get to know everything and everyone first. There is nothing like washing out the passion of NRE than an irate mother et al. Take your time and come out if you need to... that would be my suggestion
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