Originally Posted by marksbabygirl
Do you want to know before hand?
How would you feel if they came up to you (or emailed you or phoned you) and said "BTW, I really like your spouse -and want to get to know him/her - I think that he/she and I have a great connection"
Or would you prefer to wait until the spouse and new amour are in a more solid 'relationship'?
I did not read all three pages. (bad internet form on an internet forum. LOL I know I know) Anyway, If they are in a more solid "relationship", aren't they already dating?