Originally Posted by redpepper
Enjoy the clam before the storm (good or bad).
Yeah, a nice chowder goes a long way to helping relax. Have a stiff drink with it and you're set.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.