Incidentally, I think that the whole neuropsych discussion is a blind alley. Unless we're positing some sort of Cartesian "ghost in the machine", it's all brain chemistry.
Mm, I'm not trying to uncover mysteries of science or human nature, just interested in people's opinions.
We might all be just products of our physiology but that is not my personal belief.
I like your point about the word love. Maybe non-platonic love should have a different word not related to relationship type (i.e. "The love you have for a husband/wife"). Anyone feel like coining a phrase?