I'm so sorry your whole family is going through this right now. You all seem like such loving, giving, thoughtful people.
I feel so sad right now.
Time for me to buck up and find some positive stuff to say...
You are all great people. You deserve much love in your lives, and all of you will
have it, no matter how the present situation ends up. The pain sounds unbearable at the moment, but it will
get better. You've given so much love and support to the people on this board... I hope you can feel the love and support we're trying to send you right now.
I hope this didn't sound too trite... tears are leaking down my cheeks as I sit in the public library typing it.
/hugs and love