Wow...does it matter if it's love or lust?
So, she just told me she's in love with him, and he her. That they declared their love Sunday. I don't know how to feel or react. It would be so much easier if the 3 of us could ever spend any darn time together and hash this out. I don't even know if it makes a difference, I know I love her truly, madly, and deeply. I'm scared on so many levels. I don't know if this impacts it or not, Im just kind of in shock. I was (am?) trying to accept polyamory, but neither of them are giving me the opportunity to. Now this revelation, I just don't know. I'm still not sure if I can deal with it on a relationship level, let alone a love level. In some ways I suppose it could be better, in others it just turns this whole mess into a nightmare of epic porportions.