Originally Posted by YGirl
I don't think my husband would make the first move so I would be relieved if that happened. Then I could say to my husband "So-and-so likes you. Maybe you should talk to her about it". I would also be flattered that they had the nerve to approach me like that.
Although this is totally theoretical and I have no idea what my gut-reaction would be if it ever happened to me.
I am just starting to get used to the idea of poly, but I wouldn't want dh to be investing time and enrgy in a person I couldn't stand or even just got bad vibes from.