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Old 08-11-2010, 07:09 PM
NeonKaos NeonKaos is offline
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I don't think my husband would make the first move so I would be relieved if that happened. Then I could say to my husband "So-and-so likes you. Maybe you should talk to her about it". I would also be flattered that they had the nerve to approach me like that.

Although this is totally theoretical and I have no idea what my gut-reaction would be if it ever happened to me.

Originally Posted by marksbabygirl View Post

Or would you prefer to wait until the spouse and new amour are in a more solid 'relationship'?
I don't understand what you mean by this. Are you saying to wait for the spouse to start a new relationship without telling you? How would that not be "cheating" unless you have an open or DADT relationship? Is that what you mean, or do you mean something else?

Last edited by NeonKaos; 08-11-2010 at 07:12 PM.
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