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Old 08-11-2010, 04:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Ilove2men View Post
you may turn into a catalyst for him discovering want he wants with his life by testing the waters. Is it worth the risk of you heart? That's the question. You should definitely bring it up with him.
I was in a lesbian relationship when I met a man and fell in love with him. We both knew that he was a catalyst for me to realize that I am bisexual and start the process of figuring out what to do about it. That relationship was one of the most powerful, memerable and important relationships I've ever had....and it only lasted 3 months. Being a catalyst for someone can be an incredible experience as long as you realize what it is and consider that perhaps you are doing this person a great service. I'm not saying that is what is going on....just saying....if that is what's going on, it can be awesome too!!
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