RP- You've had some great things to say on my blog and wish I had something comforting to tell you.
From what Mono posted it looks like you guys have all made great strides in your time together. It's a rough patch in an otherwise happy and healthy road. Do you take time for you? Reading, a bath, meditation? I can't begin to tell you how that had helped me in these last few months. Clearing my head and taking a break for me time has brought a whole new awareness to how to solve the issues Karma and I have faced.
I'm glad your using the forum to express things and work things out. You've been a great help so many of us. I hope we can return the favor.