Originally Posted by foxflame88
My outlook on telling ppl and their reactions when I "come out" to them... those that matter won't mind, and those that mind don't matter.
I'm glad you have gotten such a positive reaction from most everyone around you.
Well, yeah. Most of our friends know we're poly and haven't batted an eye. Some few haven't pieced it together because they haven't seen us with anybody else and if they hear me talk about a hot date, either assume it's with Curly or that I'm telling tall tales.
My family's known that I'm non-monogamous for ages, though I think they engage in a good bit of denial. My extended family I don't worry about. Her extended family I also don't worry about, though she does a bit--she doesn't want to scare them, more than anything.